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Look, I love my Asian community, we get a lot of good education on our academic future, career future, financial future, relationship...

Yes, I’m old school, but it works, especially during the pandemic. Look, I understand you might be “running out of time” , “what if I...

大家好， 我是Ally Counseling and Therapy创始人，赖彗临, LCSW-R。很多来访通过我们中心的支持团体认识我们。心理支持团体是一种有效的治疗方法。很多时候，我会问我的来访“你刚刚跟我分享的这个问题，之前有和你的朋友们讨论过么”，来访常常很诧异，我...

Dear readers, I’m Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, the Director of Ally Counseling and Therapy. Many of you probably learned about us through our...

Hey there, I’m not channeling my ancient asian energy here today. I will introduce an effective stress reduction technique created by...

Happy New Year!!!!!I am thrilled to introduce two amazing emerging therapists to you. We warmly welcome you (socially-distanced) with...

新年快乐!!! 我很高兴给大家介绍新加入Ally Counseling and Therapy的两位治疗师。 我是怎么想到在疫情期间慢慢壮大治疗团队的呢？其实这真的出乎我的意料。或许是由于多方压力吧，身体健康，经济和生活方式的大幅度改变，好多人第一次求助心理咨询。我从没想过...

本文转自赖彗临个人主页 身体不听话 身体和大脑有时候“打架”的体验我们都知道吧，想想看有多少时候明明知道该起床，该干活了，身体却处于罢工状态？很多来访都和我反应我身体里面住了个“小孩”，“不听话”。我问ta， "真的是小孩不听话？还是那根本就不个孩子？" ...

转载自赖彗临个人网站 我一直在思考，如何传达积极的性教育。我不想从具体性知识开始，因为知识在这个年代，很容易获得，但是如果本身性态度/性文化上有问题，再有价值的信息也会被歪曲误解成证明自己有问题的依据。未来的分享中挑选一个我觉得对大家会有帮助的讯息。 01 中国的吃货文化...